Women's knee jerk reaction is to blame themselves for a man's porn addiction.
"I'm not thin enough."
"I'm not shaped like those butt models enough."
"I'm not tan enough."
"I'm not busting out of my bikini top enough."
It's bad enough society gaslights women 24/7/365 insisting they should RELAX because it's just porn, darling, but women really gaslight themselves when they find out a guy is using porn.
They start picking apart their own looks and assessing every crevice, every curve, and every feature. They start hating themselves and being embarrassed and ashamed of existing.
They start comparing themselves to the women he's watching in porn and soon they're convinced they're just not good enough for a porn addict who will be terrible in bed with ALL women, not just them! Really?