Trauma

He doesn’t love you. You need to see reality for what it is. Deep down, you know the truth - he loves his porn MORE and there’s nothing you can do about it. You might ask yourself if there’s a woman out there who could inspire him

In the last post of this series on the emotional toll of discovering the man you love is addicted to pornography, we discussed what I call "makeshift peace". Today, we're going to uncover yet another painful struggle many women will face in finding out porn addiction

In this series we've been discussing the emotional stages of finding out about a man's porn addiction and the varying levels of pain, panic and self-hatred you are confronting. Your anger is palpable. The betrayal is very real. His lackadaisical attitude towards you insisting, "What&

Being with a porn addict can cause a woman to be hyper-obsessed with her appearance - she’ll catch herself thinking “If only I was hotter maybe then he wouldn’t have turned to porn.” NO. In today’s video I’ll explain why it’s always about the character

This week I ran across not one but two posts on r/loveafterporn that demonstrate clear evidence that porn-addicted men in committed relationships with women develop proclivities towards seeking out gay sex with men. The first is entitled "He Cheated With a Man" [NSFW warning and edited for

In the last post of this series, we discussed denial and extreme and irrational sexual jealousy in discovering for the first time (often dubbed "Discovery Day" by the women in r/loveafterporn) the man you love is a porn addict. Today, we're going to discuss how

To stop attracting porn addicts, you have to stop being attracted TO porn addicts. Not every woman deals with porn addicted men. Being attracted to and heartbroken over a man like this is a sign of a much deeper problem within YOUR psyche that if left unchanged, will have you

Fathers who watch porn have a devastating impact on their daughters. They have no protective bone in their body - passive in every aspect of their lives, they have no instinct to preserve their young girl's heart from corruption and instead, actively bring dark energy and destruction to

The emotional roller coaster a woman withstands in finding out the man she loves is addicted pornography isn't widely discussed, nor is it even acknowledged outside of sex addiction therapy and obscure forums for women on the internet such as r/loveafterporn. To suggest that a woman'