Trauma

Ladies, I spend an inordinate amount of time mentioning that it doesn't matter what you look like because the porn addict doesn't discriminate. He sees mounds of flesh and orifices to use, not the beautiful, flawless, striking, glamorous women you are triggered by on the screen.

Many women put up with porn-addicts because they're gaslit into thinking their heartbreak is due to insecurities within themselves - in reality, it's their insecurities that CAUSE women to stay with these porn-heads. Truly confident women don't bother wasting even one second of their

For all you gravely insecure women who insist that because you are not shaped like a Las Vegas showgirl, you are the sole reason why the man in your life is addicted to pornography. Not true in the slightest (and you'll find out why below). Time and time

Lots of disappointing and degrading scenarios take place between porn addicts and the women they're involved with of whom they exploit with dry (pardon the pun), emotionless, dispassionate, mechanical and all around terrible sex. You name it, the porn addict does it (or doesn't do it,

Ladies, make no mistake, you are NOT alone in facing the devastating pain and trauma caused by male porn addiction. The addicts, the enablers, the gaslighting, the constant "just deal with it, you prude" shaming culture, the widespread sociopathy, and the total lack of support for women who

A not-so-talked about consequence of staying with a porn addict is becoming as weird, pervy, and immature as he is. A man, regardless of whether he's a loser or a total catch, will ALWAYS imprint his energetic signature on the woman he's with... and what type

At first, you might feel empty and broken. This is normal. It's common for many women to be left with trust issues, low self-esteem, and resentment towards men as a whole after dealing with a porn-addict. But as the months go on, there will come a point where

One pattern I noticed among women who find out the men in their lives are watching porn is they feel powerless. They feel helpless. They remain unsure of themselves in confronting the addict and his addiction and thus, they default to blaming themselves. Take this r/loveafterporn post as a

I realize that I'm a different animal when it comes to speaking my mind as a woman, especially where it concerns men and my relationships. To me, anything goes, while for you, it may be a much different story that paints a very different picture. Alana expressed concern