Toxic

In past videos, I’ve talked about how porn-watching men tend to look a little strange. While this is true in many cases, there are instances where a very conventionally good-looking guy is still a degenerate behind closed doors. Good looks don’t mean much at all when accompanied by

This week over at r/loveafterporn, a woman discovered her porn addict fiance was watching porn within an hour of buying her an engagement ring: "If that’s not a sign I don’t know what is… All this happened while I was at work too. It hurts to

For tonight's video, I felt inspired to talk about the selfishness that tends to hijack the porn-watcher's heart and how it affects YOU. This type of man will see your relationship in a transactional way, always keeping tabs on what you owe him, what he'

Pornography is no longer a sexual substitution for lonely men who are experiencing sexual dry spells in-between breakups as it was 2-3 decades ago. Porn has now become a complete replacement for relationships in many men's lives who are addicts. There are millions upon millions of men around

Last night on our "He's An Addict" stream we host every Wed and Sunday night at 8pm CST (make sure you subscribe and tune in), Alana featured a comment from a porn-watcher in the chat that read, "We love the variety," proudly referring to

In this video, Jenny & I react to a panel of "pick-me" women on the Steve Harvey show who justify men using porn. "If you have a problem with that, then YOU have deep seated issues! You're just being insecure!" says the woman who

Alana discussed on YouTube yesterday how you can get a man to stop watching porn and she emphasized being the woman who is "above it all" in addition to some very specific behaviors and attitudes to model in addressing the addict. You'll notice that I also

The other day I uncovered a highly useful technique to shut down the gaslighting and shaming that comes standard issue with a porn addict when you express to him you don't agree with porn use. And below, you're going to discover yet another highly effective method

In today's video you'll learn about what to look for to spot porn addiction in a man based on his looks and mannerisms. I spent years coaching mostly men in overcoming their porn addictions and there was a similar "look" they all shared. It&