Gaslighting

Porn addiction is VERY common in avoidant attachment style men. They might as well be synonyms for each other. Avoidant men are known for their emotional unavailabiltiy, selfishness, secretiveness, lack of empathy, and overall inability to truly LOVE. So it’s no surprise that these are the exact men who

Being with a porn addict can cause a woman to be hyper-obsessed with her appearance - she’ll catch herself thinking “If only I was hotter maybe then he wouldn’t have turned to porn.” NO. In today’s video I’ll explain why it’s always about the character

This week I ran across not one but two posts on r/loveafterporn that demonstrate clear evidence that porn-addicted men in committed relationships with women develop proclivities towards seeking out gay sex with men. The first is entitled "He Cheated With a Man" [NSFW warning and edited for

In the last post of this series, we discussed denial and extreme and irrational sexual jealousy in discovering for the first time (often dubbed "Discovery Day" by the women in r/loveafterporn) the man you love is a porn addict. Today, we're going to discuss how

Porn addiction in men often seems "sneaky" and indiscernible to women but most of the time it isn't. The problem lies more in the fact that the whole of society makes it harder for women to realize they don't have to and definitely shouldn&

In my previous post, a woman from r/loveafterporn mentioned her husband (tacitly) accused her, while openly accusing other women on the 60,000+ strong subreddit, of making up fables on the internet to get attention. These women couldn't possibly be dealing with the emotional nuclear fallout of

A woman who has been taking refuge in r/loveafterporn as a resource to aid her in confronting her husband and his porn addiction once more discovers addicts have no empathy nor concern towards women who are dealing with this ongoing porn crisis in their relationships: "At the time,

Many women Alana and I speak to daily are confronted not only with gaslighting, shaming and enabling from porn addicts themselves and their male cohorts, but women also jump in on the shaming bandwagon towards those brave women who choose to speak up and remain adamant they don't

In tonight's video we'll react to comments from our haters, trolls, and porn-watching enablers who say women like us are "controlling", "insecure", "crazy", and everything else in the book. Ladies, DO NOT fall for their pathetic excuses. It's