Enablers

Porn addiction is VERY common in avoidant attachment style men. They might as well be synonyms for each other. Avoidant men are known for their emotional unavailabiltiy, selfishness, secretiveness, lack of empathy, and overall inability to truly LOVE. So it’s no surprise that these are the exact men who

In the last post of this series, we discussed denial and extreme and irrational sexual jealousy in discovering for the first time (often dubbed "Discovery Day" by the women in r/loveafterporn) the man you love is a porn addict. Today, we're going to discuss how

I manage to mosey on over to r/nofap every so often and gather intelligence based on the work we do here at He's An Addict and I can't help but to consistently confirm my hard-lined stance that: No.Fap.Is.Not.Going.To.Help.Men.

Porn addiction in men often seems "sneaky" and indiscernible to women but most of the time it isn't. The problem lies more in the fact that the whole of society makes it harder for women to realize they don't have to and definitely shouldn&

In my previous post, a woman from r/loveafterporn mentioned her husband (tacitly) accused her, while openly accusing other women on the 60,000+ strong subreddit, of making up fables on the internet to get attention. These women couldn't possibly be dealing with the emotional nuclear fallout of

A woman who has been taking refuge in r/loveafterporn as a resource to aid her in confronting her husband and his porn addiction once more discovers addicts have no empathy nor concern towards women who are dealing with this ongoing porn crisis in their relationships: "At the time,

Many women Alana and I speak to daily are confronted not only with gaslighting, shaming and enabling from porn addicts themselves and their male cohorts, but women also jump in on the shaming bandwagon towards those brave women who choose to speak up and remain adamant they don't

Being overly empathetic, understanding, and accommodating rarely works with a guy who watches porn. He's more likely to continue his habit when he sees you lack a backbone. So what is the best way to get him to choose you over porn? Is it even possible? Is it

A woman over at r/loveafterporn wrote in torn apart that her porn addict boyfriend was viewing pornography and masturbating right in front of her: "He likes to watch TV in the bedroom late into the night in his swivel chair. I happened to wake up as he was