We hope you were able to tune into our stream tonight with our very special guest (also my client who inspired and lit the fire under me to begin doing work here at He's An Addict), Shekinah, giving her testimony on how she left her porn addicted boyfriend this summer.
Shekinah is a stunning, bright, bubbly young woman in her early 20's that any healthy, red-blooded, heterosexual man would love to be with. Yet, she found herself in a death spiral relationship for 3 years with a porn addict who showed no remorse and zero sexual interest in her in the end because he was focused on his dirty porn habit he tried to keep a secret.
What stuck out most to me about Shekinah was that she felt it in her gut that something was wrong. She described looking forward to visiting him on the weekends and 20 minutes after she would arrive at his apartment, she was turned off by him.
Her body was out of sync with his because she could feel intuitively that he was pornsick. She knew there was something rotten afoot in the relationship for months yet she couldn't pinpoint what it was until she saw porn on his phone.
She was able to summon the resolve to dump him the very next day after she discovered he had a porn addiction as the relationship had long soured because of the lack of sex (which is typical with all impotent porn addicts).
The biggest red flags she spotted in him leading up to the demise of the relationship were:
- Extreme passivity - not being able make any decisions or be assertive
- No sex - she would be anxious to see him and spend time with him and he'd roll over and go to sleep even though she'd been anticipating all week they would see each other and make love
- Baby talk - through his behaviors he was encouraging her to take on a mother role as he became more and more emasculated from his porn habits
And as always, when she confronted him about seeing the porn on his phone, he gaslit her and said, "I'm a guy. Did you really think I don't watch it? Of course, I watch it! All guys watch it!"
The good news is, Shekinah, with some time and distance and some good old-fashioned healing, was able to get over this pathetic, emasculated porn-watcher. She is happy, confident, looking ahead at her future with much optimism, and is dating again. She's enjoying her life as she should as a 23-year old young woman who doesn't have to hitch her wagon to a sexually defunct porn-watcher.
Ladies, no woman on earth has to settle for a porn addict. The world is FULL of men and NO, not all men watch porn like these gaslighting, porn addicted chumps insist!
Make sure you watch our broadcast below and hear what Shekinah has to say...
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Love,
Jenny
