In tonight’s video I reveal the truth about what “avoidant attachment” really means. Attachment styles seem to be all the rage these days, and it’s making people obsessed with psychoanalyzing their “avoidant” man. There’s really nothing to analyze here. I’ll break down the reason for why

We hope you were able to tune into our stream tonight with our very special guest (also my client who inspired and lit the fire under me to begin doing work here at He's An Addict), Shekinah, giving her testimony on how she left her porn addicted boyfriend

For tonight's video, I felt inspired to talk about the selfishness that tends to hijack the porn-watcher's heart and how it affects YOU. This type of man will see your relationship in a transactional way, always keeping tabs on what you owe him, what he'

Pornography is no longer a sexual substitution for lonely men who are experiencing sexual dry spells in-between breakups as it was 2-3 decades ago. Porn has now become a complete replacement for relationships in many men's lives who are addicts. There are millions upon millions of men around

Last night on our "He's An Addict" stream we host every Wed and Sunday night at 8pm CST (make sure you subscribe and tune in), Alana featured a comment from a porn-watcher in the chat that read, "We love the variety," proudly referring to

In this video I explain the exact steps to take to finally walk away from the porn-watching man you’ve gotten so attached to. It’s hard to leave when you’re in love. It’s hard to accept that your time was wasted... and yet NONE of that compares

In this video, Jenny & I react to a panel of "pick-me" women on the Steve Harvey show who justify men using porn. "If you have a problem with that, then YOU have deep seated issues! You're just being insecure!" says the woman who

Alana discussed on YouTube yesterday how you can get a man to stop watching porn and she emphasized being the woman who is "above it all" in addition to some very specific behaviors and attitudes to model in addressing the addict. You'll notice that I also

The other day I uncovered a highly useful technique to shut down the gaslighting and shaming that comes standard issue with a porn addict when you express to him you don't agree with porn use. And below, you're going to discover yet another highly effective method