A not-so-talked about consequence of staying with a porn addict is becoming as weird, pervy, and immature as he is. A man, regardless of whether he's a loser or a total catch, will ALWAYS imprint his energetic signature on the woman he's with... and what type

The reason they call porn addicts "coomers" or "coombrains" is because they can take a perfectly normal social situation occurring in everyday life and make it into something really gross and perverted faster than your head will spin and you can spit up pea soup. You&

I talk a lot on this site about enabler and apologist women (you may have read one of my most recent posts on "the enabler mommy") and how Alana and I ourselves have personally experienced their shaming. Here's a post from r/pornismisogyny that exposes these

At first, you might feel empty and broken. This is normal. It's common for many women to be left with trust issues, low self-esteem, and resentment towards men as a whole after dealing with a porn-addict. But as the months go on, there will come a point where

Death grip syndrome is a major problem with porn addicts, particularly those who have been abusing porn for years and masturbating (as these two often go hand-in-hand) and the desensitization that goes along with it. What is a death grip? Death grip is the increasing constriction of the penis and

One pattern I noticed among women who find out the men in their lives are watching porn is they feel powerless. They feel helpless. They remain unsure of themselves in confronting the addict and his addiction and thus, they default to blaming themselves. Take this r/loveafterporn post as a

I realize that I'm a different animal when it comes to speaking my mind as a woman, especially where it concerns men and my relationships. To me, anything goes, while for you, it may be a much different story that paints a very different picture. Alana expressed concern

The endless stream of bizarre instances and circumstances involving porn addiction in men never ceases to be the incessant leak under the house that keeps on leaking no matter how many plumbers you got on speed dial to patch it up. The women at r/loveafterporn insist that they can

It's become increasingly important that women remain aware that not all men watch porn and not all men are porn addicts. When you are involved with a porn addict, his gaslighting and especially his defensiveness surrounding the subject of porn will become increasingly obvious to you. It will