THIS is How You Stop Men From Gaslighting and Shaming You For Being Opposed to Pornography

To any diehard or lesser porn addict, if you contend that you don't agree with pornography use overall and/or especially in a relationship, he will attempt to shame and gaslight you into submission. He will lay the shame and gaslighting on really thick too.

I'm THE foremost expert at dealing with gaslighters, shamers, naysayers and all sorts of bullies who try and prevent me from having my own opinions, boundaries and speaking out against this culture of grossness (much more on that below lol).

And it's ironic that so many men always expect us as women to be "good" and "pure" but when we express any dismay or discomfort at pornography use, suddenly they shame us and call us prudes and expect us to act more like the whores they watch in porn!