Ladies, there will come a time in your relationship with the porn addict where the trauma and anxiety-ridden attachment starts to resolve itself...
You will start looking at the porn addict with contempt. Where his fixation on women he can never have in a million years starts to become utterly ridiculous to you rather than constantly being a threat to your well-being. Where you will lose any and all respect you ever had for him and he will start to look weak, washed up and pitiful (because that's exactly what the porn addict is).
And I want to take a moment to celebrate a newly brave soul of a woman whose husband she caught messaging teens on Facebook and she decided to fight fire with fire:
I will add that this is very mild in its scope and execution because if this was me (and no, I am not personally recommending you exact retribution on the porn addict the way I would), I would do a lot more than just message these women and tell them he's a pervert (especially when it's rather obvious to women the world over a 60-year old man messaging teens is a creepy, sick bastard).
Also, I'm sure you remember being young enough to have dirty old men attempting to sexually prey on you. And what is a young woman's first reaction to this display of vile grossness?
To cringe and close it out. To get as far away from it as possible. To dismiss the perv as a sickening dirty old man. And to physically cringe and want to vomit.
So perhaps it would be beneficial to you to also take this perspective into account - that the porn addict you are in love with is getting the exact same treatment from the women he's attempting to interact with.
No woman on earth respects a porn addict, except for you at this current place in time. So maybe the question to ask yourself is why? Why are you the only woman on earth who will even put up with the porn addict that's actively in your life when no other woman would?
I'd throw him out on his arse. He can take his screen, his broken dick and his hand with him and go die alone. lol 60 years old thinking a teen is going to give him the time of day? He's one pornsick wretched little puppy!
Love,
Jenny
