Jenny White

Death grip syndrome is a major problem with porn addicts, particularly those who have been abusing porn for years and masturbating (as these two often go hand-in-hand) and the desensitization that goes along with it. What is a death grip? Death grip is the increasing constriction of the penis and

One pattern I noticed among women who find out the men in their lives are watching porn is they feel powerless. They feel helpless. They remain unsure of themselves in confronting the addict and his addiction and thus, they default to blaming themselves. Take this r/loveafterporn post as a

I realize that I'm a different animal when it comes to speaking my mind as a woman, especially where it concerns men and my relationships. To me, anything goes, while for you, it may be a much different story that paints a very different picture. Alana expressed concern

The endless stream of bizarre instances and circumstances involving porn addiction in men never ceases to be the incessant leak under the house that keeps on leaking no matter how many plumbers you got on speed dial to patch it up. The women at r/loveafterporn insist that they can

It's become increasingly important that women remain aware that not all men watch porn and not all men are porn addicts. When you are involved with a porn addict, his gaslighting and especially his defensiveness surrounding the subject of porn will become increasingly obvious to you. It will

In the last post of this series on the emotional toll of discovering the man you love is addicted to pornography, we discussed what I call "makeshift peace". Today, we're going to uncover yet another painful struggle many women will face in finding out porn addiction

You would think it's a no-brainer that one could draw many conclusions as to why men who are addicted to porn are so bad at sex, yet many women are relegated to repeatedly asking themselves why? The majority of men who are addicted to pornography are impotent to

The anti-pornography subreddit, r/antipornography, exposed a Reddit user who admittedly stores one terabyte of porn on his computer hard drive he painstakingly keeps a secret from the woman of whom he's in a committed relationship. Now remember, Alana discussed in-depth how selfish, emotionally unavailable, secretive and unempathetic

In this series we've been discussing the emotional stages of finding out about a man's porn addiction and the varying levels of pain, panic and self-hatred you are confronting. Your anger is palpable. The betrayal is very real. His lackadaisical attitude towards you insisting, "What&