The other day I uncovered a highly useful technique to shut down the gaslighting and shaming that comes standard issue with a porn addict when you express to him you don't agree with porn use.
And below, you're going to discover yet another highly effective method to stop a porn addict dead in his tracks when he tries to bully/shame/gaslight/drill it into your head that porn use is just AWESOME and a-okay!
I think this is what women find the most difficult to deal with by far–the fact that porn use is so widespread, "normal," and acceptable that anyone (especially a woman) who expresses any disapproval is met with immediate bullying, shaming and gaslighting.
This happens for two reasons:
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